Parenting time should be frequent and meaningful
Going through a divorce is not only hard on the spouses; it can heavily affect the children as well. Aside from the property division, children are a major point of contention during the dissolution process. While emotions are typically running rampant, the parties should consider what is in the best interest of the children. Parenting time is vital to the development of children. It gives children the opportunity to spend time and build relationships with both parents. By both parents being in their children’s lives, they are able to observe them, learning their behaviors, strengths, and weaknesses. This gives the parents the ability to guide them based on their specific needs.
As parents, it is important to spend quality time and maintain a healthy relationship with your children; whether you are making ice cream sundaes or having deep conversations about beliefs and values. Time spent with children enables them to feel loved, leading them to be more open and expressive.
Additionally, as children develop into adults, their parental interactions teach them what is “normal” behavior. That is, whether one is or is not in the lives of their children, it teaches them the impact of parenting or, in some cases, lack there off. Therefore, it is also crucial to be consistent when it comes to spending time with your children. If you are not consistent, it can leave the child feeling insignificant and unwanted.
Although parenting time issues are thought to be more prevalent when going through a divorce, it is not uncommon for parents who have never married to share similar challenges. When parents are not married, both parties do have the right to equal parenting time. In some cases, the parties are able to resolve custody and parenting time decisions on their own. In others, one party generally has to petition the court to assist in the process.
How to get more parenting time
If paternity has not been established, the party must establish it prior to moving forward. Once paternity is established, the Superior Court then establishes legal decision-making, custody and parenting time for the party’s children.
Are you spending enough time with your children? If you feel as though you are not getting an adequate amount of parenting time give us a call at (480) 442-4142. The Harding Firm is here to advocate on your family’s behalf. Our firm offers legal guidance with integrity. Remember, “Choices change lives. Choose wisely.” – Kina Harding.
